Don't get defensive ,Sir,
It would be real good for the site to do some Policing to make sure all parties get a fair shot at points and not just the ones who have learned how to be kinky.
It wasn't that long ago that we all read the news here about a member getting a lifetime ban from the activities here.
That was a prime example of the site,HWBOT.org, doing a great job of Policing the members posting of results so that there was acknowledgment of the REAL Accomplishments done by Tried and True methods.