Must Just follow that might be easy and quick. Check ur cooling.....etc. most hardware are not equally built especially cpu. You might need diff adjustments.
Increment Vccsa and see if ram gets stable
Still suspect v core though
It might be unstable uncore
High temps can be lid weak contect with die
Leave all those ram volts just focus on vdimms
Just run ram at its native and clock cpu as high it can go. Once cpu is stable then tuch ram. You won't be determine where the instability. Seems low v core to me.... but further test with prime at least 3 hours. Keep post results